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		<title>Kill Conflict DEAD! Part 2</title>
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Conflict Across Cultures Series
By Matthew Hill&#160;&#160;
Have you had enough time to think about the Oranges puzzle from a couple of weeks ago?&#160;
Here is the background to remind you…&#160;
If one party wants to grow orange trees and the other party has a child to nourish, (and there are 2 oranges), what is the solution?&#160;
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<p style="margin-bottom: 10.0pt;"><b><span style="font-size: 24.0pt; font-family: Times; color: #0E16F8;">Conflict Across Cultures Series</span></b></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 10.0pt; line-height: 18.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-family: Helvetica; color: gray;">By </span><b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-family: Times; color: #E3231B;">Matthew Hill</span></b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-family: Helvetica; color: gray;">&nbsp;</span><span style="color: rgb(128, 128, 128); font-size: 19px;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span>Have you had enough time to think about the Oranges puzzle from a couple of weeks ago?</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span>Here is the background to remind you…</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 10.0pt; line-height: 18.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-family: Helvetica; color: gray;">If one party wants to </span><b><span style="font-size: 19.0pt; font-family: Times; color: #E86C20;">grow orange trees</span></b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-family: Helvetica; color: gray;"> and the other party has a child to nourish, (and there are 2 oranges), what is the solution?&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">Take a minute and try to think of a reasonable solution…</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">How you think and what type of answer you come up with will reflect your influences, your programming and your thought patterns now.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">Did you take a side and try for a Win – Lose, distributive arrangement? E.g. The mother wears down the farmer with the baby’s crying and gets both oranges!</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">Did you take a moral stance? Did you abandon logic or move away from an equal starting point?</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">To get the best solutions you have to attempt the impossible – </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Arial Bold; color: red;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">to transcend your culture</span></span></b><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">, your learning and your </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Arial Bold; color: blue;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">patterns of behaviour</span></span></b><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">The principles of negotiation help us to achieve this as they have a magical synergistic quality to them anyway.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">By centering on </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Arial Bold; color: red;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">interests and needs</span></span></b><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">, by looking at </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Arial Bold; color: #FF6600;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">collaborative strategies</span></span></b><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">, by acknowledging difference and individual motivation, an optimal solution can be arrived at.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">In this example, the farmer has need of the pips and the child can benefit from the orange juice. They can both have all of the resource they need most!</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">How will you apply this learning next week?</span></span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 14px;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 10.0pt; line-height: 18.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-family: Helvetica; color: gray;">Until the next time…</span></p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t assume you know the answer</title>
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Intercultural trainers and academics are nervous of each other.&#160; Academia either produces more and more complicated models or more and more vocal criticisms of the theoretical approaches of the trainers.&#160; Trainers on the other hand are accused of mis-applying models and theories, or ignoring latest developments and are branded culturist and reductionist.

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<p>Intercultural trainers and academics are nervous of each other.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Academia either produces more and more complicated models or more and more vocal criticisms of the theoretical approaches of the trainers.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Trainers on the other hand are accused of mis-applying models and theories, or ignoring latest developments and are branded culturist and reductionist.</p>
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<p>The best trainers, and the most resourceful academics, are more open minded and can take lessons from each other.<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p>Which is why I dare to write a short article on pragmatics, or more specifically what pragmatics can bring to the debate about intercultural communication.</p>
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<p>Intercultural communication studies are at some stage bound by their very nature eventually to concentrate on communication failure, examining the reasons for misunderstandings and miscommunications, verbal and non-verbal<span style=""></span> CITATION Sie08 \l 2057 <span style=""></span><span style=""><span style="">&nbsp;</span>(Sierra, 2008)</span><span style=""></span>.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Taking the view expressed by Scollon and Scollon (2001) that intercultural competence is the ability to communicate with </p>
<p><span style="">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span>people in social interaction with each other <span style=""></span><span style=""> </span>CITATION Sco01 \l 2057 <span style=""></span><span style="">(Scollon, 2001)</span><span style=""></span></p>
<p>we can state that all communication is intercultural.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Taking the definition of pragmatics as explained by Atkinson, Kilby and Roca (1988:217; in Grundy 1995) that pragmatics focuses on the distinction between the literal meaning of a speaker’s words, and what the speaker may intend to mean by those words, we can see that pragmatics is one of the essential tools we have at our disposal to examine intercultural training.<span style="">&nbsp; <br /></span></p>
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<p>When speaking to familiar people who share the same native language we can reasonably assume that the majority of our talk is understood, (for example in <span style=""></span><span style=""> </span>CITATION Mol05 \l 2057 <span style=""></span><span style="">(Molinksy, 2005)</span><span style=""></span> when, as in the case of intercultural communication we are talking across language or international borders we can presume that communication breakdown is more likely to occur.<span style="">&nbsp; <br /></span></p>
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<p>A communication exchange can only be successful where it takes place within the realm of the participants’ shared knowledge and experience.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>As both speaker and hearer have to make presumptions about what this “common ground” entails, and within the cooperative principle the speaker must assume that the common knowledge is shared by all participants in the talk. <span style="">&nbsp;</span>However, crucially the speaker can never be sure that this is the case <span style=""></span><span style=""> </span>CITATION Bos06 \l 2057 <span style=""></span><span style="">(Bosco, Bucciarelli, &amp; Bara, 2006)</span><span style=""></span>.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>We can therefore deduce that one of the main causes of miscommunication is relying on false assumptions.</p>
<p>If you’re still reading, a more practical approach:</p>
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<p>When you go into a client meeting, think about all the presumptions you make.<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style=""><b><span style=""><span style="">1.<span style="font: 7pt Times New Roman;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="">&nbsp;</span>Language</b></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">Most meetings are conducted in English, but how many business people check in advance, or even better, apologise if they are unable to conduct the full meeting in their hosts’ language?</p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style=""><b><span style=""><span style="">2.<span style="font: 7pt Times New Roman;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="">&nbsp;</span>Intentions</b></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">We presume that we have similar intentions – in other words if we are there to present a proposal, we have a reasonable expectation that there is some chance of success.<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style=""><b><span style=""><span style="">3.<span style="font: 7pt Times New Roman;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="">&nbsp;</span>Understanding</b></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">We have an instinctive ability to interpret verbal and non-verbal messages, and for clarifying meaning.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>However these are based on our own personal experience which may differ significantly from those of our partners in interaction.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>At a very simplistic level 99.9% percent (rough guess) equate BBC with the British Broadcasting Corporation, however my daughter knows the BBC as the Better Behaviour Centre at her school (fortunately she has no personal experience of it!).<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">Usually the context of a conversation gives us good clues as to what it means, but if she were to come home saying she had been to the BBC today and was then distracted by a phone call, she would get away with her crime completely without having uttered a single untruth – yet it is clear that I have been deceived.<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">In an international context, personal experiences are likely to be much more varied, and therefore conversations will have a much smaller area of common ground and higher levels of misunderstanding.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>With remote communications and slangy emails abundant, we need to double check our understanding instinct</p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style=""><b><span style=""><span style="">4.<span style="font: 7pt Times New Roman;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="">&nbsp;</span>Rules of engagement</b></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">Life is made up of rules, and communicative interactions even more so.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>The problem is no one has written the rules down.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>We nearly always manage to avoid swearing in front of our parents or at an important business meeting.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>We always manage to avoid addressing our closest friend as Mr Y or Ms Z (maybe occasionally with irony&#8230;).<span style="">&nbsp; </span>We understand at an instinctive level when a conversation is over, when it is our turn to talk, whom we can interrupt and who cannot be interrupted – these rules are part of our transition from babyhood to adulthood – we often term those who cannot adhere to these rules as “immature” – they have not learned the correct way.<span style="">&nbsp; <br /></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;"><span style=""><br /></span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">However we assume that these underlying rules are universal, or at least that OUR rules are best and not to be questioned.<span style="">&nbsp; </span><span style="">&nbsp;</span>I have no idea whether these pictures are genuine or not but they illustrate the point better than me <a href="http://bit.ly/d0en4l">http://bit.ly/d0en4l</a></p>
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<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">In summary these 4 points are scratching the surface of what we can gain as trainers from pragmatics without delving into overly complicated methodological debates and arguments.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>What better way to justify training content than referring to well researched academic texts that support our training activities.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Austin in 1962 was one of the first to <span style="">&nbsp;</span>look at the intentions behind utterances, and by identifying the stages of locution, illocution and perlocution he implicitly recognises that what we actually say and the effect it has on our partner in discourse may be two (at least) very different things .<span style="">&nbsp; </span>Dascal makes the important point that participants in conversation must comply with two essential duties: to make oneself understood, and to understand <span style="">(Dascal, 1999)</span>.<span style="">&nbsp; </span>As part of those duties, interlocutors make every effort to ignore superficial, insignificant “errors” in grammar, pronunciation in order to maintain a smooth flow of conversation – if we can promote the ways in which we can make ourselves understood and in return make it easier for<span style="">&nbsp; </span>us to understand others then we are achieving the goal of intercultural training</p>
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<p style="margin-left: 18pt;">If we, as trainers want to provide training on avoiding intercultural misunderstandings then we should not ignore those who have gone before.<span style="">&nbsp; </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="">Atkinson, M. K. (1988). <i>Foundations of General Linguistics (2nd Edition).</i> London: Allen and Unwin.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="">Austin, J. L. (1962). <i>How to do things with Words. In Jaworski (1999).</i> </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="">Bosco F., M., Bucciarelli M. and Bara B., G.</span><span style=""> Recognition and repair of communicative failures: A developmental perspective [Journal]&nbsp;// Journal of Pragmatics.&nbsp;- 2006.&nbsp;- Vol. 38.&nbsp;- pp. 1398-1429.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="">Scollon, R. S. (2001). <i>Intercultural Communication.</i> Oxford: Blackwell.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNoSpacing"><span style="">Sierra, J. J. (2008). Cross/intercultural training. A one-day seminar in preperation of travel abroad. <i>Intercultural Education</i> <i>, 19</i> (3), 283-289.</span></p>
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Conflict Across Cultures

By Matthew Hill&#160;
When you next think you are in conflict with someone with a different background, how do you feel?
Do you feel “first world” guilt? Do you ignore the differences and judge the other party by your own standards and codes?&#160;
It is not easy, but applying culture theory can help.&#160;
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<p><b style=""><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; font-family: Arial Bold; color: blue;">Conflict Across Cultures</span></b></p>
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<p><span>By </span><b style=""><span style="font-family: Arial Bold; color: red;">Matthew Hill</span></b>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span>When you next think you are in conflict with someone with a different background, how do you feel?</span></p>
<p><span>Do you feel “first world” guilt? Do you ignore the differences and judge the other party by your own standards and codes?</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span>It is not easy, but applying culture theory can help.</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span>When in deadlock, there are several pathways out. They centre, not on position but interest; not on win – lose but strategy; not on hogging scarce resources but integrating needs; and not on “right-wrong” but recognizing the values, drivers and believes of the other party and coming to a respectful and rational arrangement.</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span>If one party wants to </span><b style=""><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-family: Arial Bold; color: #FF6600;">grow orange trees</span></b><span> and the other party has a child to nourish, (and there are 2 oranges), what is the solution?</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span>How you answer will reflect your cultural programming, your power and your conflict style.</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span>Have a think… More anon.</span>&nbsp;</p>
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Intellectually, the first world would say, we have a global economy,
shared responsibility for climate change and that every country has a sporting chance to compete in the World Cup.
I want to pose a simple question; can humans think globally? During the World Cup&#8230;
we have all been passed by cars sporting one or two polyester flags on [...]]]></description>
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<p>Intellectually, the first world would say, we have a global economy,<a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/world-cup.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2019" title="world cup" src="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/world-cup.jpg" alt="" width="72" height="84" /></a><br />
shared responsibility for climate change and that every country has a sporting chance to compete in the World Cup.</p>
<p>I want to pose a simple question; <strong>can humans think globally? </strong>During the World Cup&#8230;</p>
<p><span id="more-2014"></span>we have all been passed by cars sporting one or two polyester flags on plastic poles attached to their doors. This is a symbol of patriotism and <strong>national identity</strong><strong> </strong>. This is evidence of people wishing to belong to a group. In this example, that group is their country.</p>
<p>Again there is a question; is there something for humans to think nationally about? Is a nation a useful or usable social unit?</p>
<p>I want to attack this from another perspective. If we look at history, maps and diversity then our understanding of a country being one fixed place with one fixed people falls apart pretty rapidly. 150 years ago Italy and Germany were not countries.  Belgium and Pakistan were made up.   In London, there are more than 300 different ethnic groups and a quarter of the children born now have parents who were born elsewhere. There is nothing very fixed about this.</p>
<p>An interesting reason for countries existing, is the need for us to feel we have something in common with those around us. The definition of the space around us various. 1000 years ago it would have been how far you can walk in the day. 150 years ago it would be how far you can travel by train in the day. Nowadays the BBC seems to report from anywhere and everywhere.</p>
<p>Have we invented countries to simplify and digest difference so that we feel safer; so that our fear and stress levels are reduced? Was not the EU and the “Eurozone” formed as an economic bridge of cooperation to foster the prosperity of people and therefore avert a repeat of the scarcity-based causes of World War II?</p>
<p>So the larger bodies &#8211; the EU, countries or the carbon space are a fiction that allows expression of our higher drives and goals.   Intellectually, we can talk about dollars and carbon but emotionally, we need to feel secure enough at home in order that this debate continues and does not become too selfish and nasty.</p>
<p>There are a lot of assumptions that must be made for this to occur and we must swallow and accept the fiction of countries in order to make progress.</p>
<p>Country theory is written by the winners and has been undermined by the sub-prime American banking crisis, which could still take us all down. When time are tough, we think more about ourselves and a lot less about others.</p>
<p>Even before America’s partial economic meltdown, most of the world could not participate in the economic prosperity that the few took for granted.</p>
<p><strong>There is not one world.</strong><strong></strong> There is not a global anything and countries are an artifice, an idea, and a convenience.</p>
<p>Is there another way to promote healthy human behaviour by the <strong>“haves”</strong><strong></strong> and to protect the interests of the <strong>“have-nots”</strong><strong></strong>? And how can we avoid the negative basic drivers taking over; competition, domination, and war?</p>
<p>Food for thought.</p>
<p>by <strong>Matthew Hill</strong></p>
<p>Matthew Hill<strong></strong> trains groups in Raising Cultural Awareness and International Teamwork. 07813 760 711</p>
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		<title>5 Important Steps To Understanding Cultural Differences</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 00:47:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Swallow</dc:creator>
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that are good to remember:

Acknowledge differences exist
Understand and analyse why those differences exist
Appreciate the unique values, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviours of different cultures
Adapt your behaviour — including your cross-cultural communication style — to meet the needs of others.
Be sensitive to feedback and adapt accordingly.

When things just don’t seem to be going right&#8230; Remember:
Don’t [...]]]></description>
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that are good to remembe</strong>r:</p>
<ol>
<li>Acknowledge differences exist</li>
<li>Understand and analyse why those differences exist</li>
<li>Appreciate the unique values, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviours of different cultures</li>
<li>Adapt your behaviour — including your <a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/category/cross-cultural-communication/">cross-cultural communicatio</a>n style — to meet the needs of others.</li>
<li>Be sensitive to feedback and adapt accordingly.</li>
</ol>
<p>When things just don’t seem to be going right&#8230; Remember:</p>
<p><strong><span id="more-1951"></span>Don’t take things personally!</strong></p>
<p>This comes from personal experience. When you don’t understand why people are behaving the way they are or people aren’t doing things the way you thought they would, don’t jump to the conclusion that they are doing it to annoy/upset you.</p>
<p>The first lesson of intercultural communication is to STOP BEING SELF-CENTRED. You’ve probably stumbled across a cultural difference which has prompted a form of <a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/category/culture-shock-stuff/">Culture Shock</a>.</p>
<p>My other articles related to culture shock can be found here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/13/what-is-culture-shock/">What Is Culture Shock?</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/14/the-stages-of-adjusting-to-a-new-culture/">The Stages of Adjusting To A New Culture</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2009/08/18/10-culture-shock-priniciples-for-working-internationally/">10 Culture Shock Principles For Working Internationally</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/17/before-you-go-what-to-do-before-you-leave/">Before You Go: What To Do Before You Leave</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/16/overcoming-culture-shock/">Overcoming Culture Shock</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/15/the-classic-5-stage-culture-shock-model/">The Classic 5-Stage Culture Shock Model</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/18/rhinesmiths-10-stages-of-culture-shock/">Rhinesmith’s 10 Stages of Culture Shock</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/20/collective-culture-shock/">Collective Culture Shoc</a>k</p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/06/13/advice-for-expats-moving-to-the-arab-world/">Advice For  Expats Moving to the Arab World</a></p>
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		<title>Why is Cultural Perception Never Pure?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jun 2010 18:29:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Swallow</dc:creator>
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We will never fully transcend our cultural influences  to have 
an objective view. Everybody is trapped by their history, community, education, language, family upbringing and body. Our five (or 8 senses) take in everything around us. If this information were to be made readily available to us, we would be paralysed and blinded; swamped by data [...]]]></description>
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<p>We will never fully <strong>transcend our cultural influences</strong><strong> </strong> to have <a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/global-diversity.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1610" title="Culture Shock" src="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/global-diversity.jpg" alt="" width="101" height="102" /></a><br />
an objective view. Everybody is trapped by their history, community, education, language, family upbringing and body. Our five (or 8 senses) take in everything around us. If this information were to be made readily available to us, we would be paralysed and blinded; swamped by data overload&#8230;</p>
<p><span id="more-2013"></span>Instead, we filter and look for patterns and repetitions that allow shortcuts, shorthand and second-guessing. This is why optical illusions are so strong – we have been trained to bring the assumptions from our past learning to the present situation. The effect is shocking. Just how much of our experience of the world is a <strong>guess</strong><strong></strong> based on learnt patterns and particularly past pain.</p>
<p>We are brainwashed by early rules – Can you remember what your Mother told you never to do? We are heavily influenced by the kindness and charm of those with influence and proximity – What was your favourite subject at school? Now answer this. Does this correspond to your favourite subject? For many the answer will be <strong>YES</strong><strong></strong>. Something to think about.</p>
<p>Our peers have influenced us to an extraordinary extend using <strong>social approval</strong><strong></strong> – What we like, don’t like, our political views and even our life choices. Many of you will, in effect ending up marrying your <strong>“BLIND” date</strong><strong></strong>, i.e. it will have been programmed or arranged for you, by your buddies!</p>
<p>Society only functions because rules exist and they are subtly policed by…the members of that society. The chant of <strong>“the greater good”</strong><strong></strong> in the film Hot Fuzz is pretty near the mark.</p>
<p>Our language is a shorthand and its structures and forms also limit our permitted experience of the world – German speakers listen because they have to. The operator verb occurs on at the end of a long sentence. Some Asian scripts have pictorial characters making the readers into super-efficient visual clue spotters.</p>
<p>The result is that our <strong>cultural truths</strong><strong></strong> are held in the words and noises we use, the pictures we see and create and the way we move and hold our bodies (Non Verbal Communication.)</p>
<p>The (pre-programmed) pessimist will see this as a tragic joke of pretend freedoms and false individualism.</p>
<p>The (pre – programmed) optimist will see this as a liberating lesson in the meaninglessness of everything, that enables the possibility of infinite creation.</p>
<p>Something to think about (within the limits of your culture, of course.)</p>
<p><strong>By</strong></p>
<p><strong>Matthew Hill</strong><strong></strong></p>
<p>Leadership Trainer and Executive Coach</p>
<p><a href="mailto:matthew.hill@hillnetworks.com">matthew.hill@hillnetworks.com</a></p>
<p>07813 760 711</p>
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		<title>Advice for Expats Moving to The Arab World</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jun 2010 23:24:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Swallow</dc:creator>
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Living and working in the Arab World will be completely different from anything else you have so far experienced. The place will be full of wonder and new things to encounter; exciting times – that’s the upside. However, most Western managers find working practices very frustrating and the lifestyle limiting; challenging times – that’s the [...]]]></description>
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<p>Living and working in the Arab World will be completely different from anything else you have so far experienced. The place will be full of wonder and new things to encounter; exciting times – that’s the upside. However, most Western managers find working practices very frustrating and the lifestyle limiting; challenging times – that’s the downside. So how can you prepare for your new posting?</p>
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<p><strong><em>What to do before you leave?</em></strong></p>
<p>First, search the internet for articles on your destination. Search out expat blogs that really give you a flavour of the issues of day-to-day living. You’ll want to get an understanding of any support you can get in your area and whether there is someone to call on for help. Get in touch with your embassy and ask them for a list of business networks, chambers of commerce and other informal organizations you could hook up with before you leave. It’s always good to have a couple of warm leads before you move to a new place.</p>
<p>Once you have made some connections, start asking questions about how easy it is to mix with locals; what was it like for them when they first moved in; what one thing would they do differently if they had the chance – you know the type of thing. Try and learn from their experiences.</p>
<p><strong><em>What to expect on arrival?</em></strong></p>
<p>Nothing will prepare you for the strict way you will have to consistently behave in public, especially if you are coming from the US or a European country. No drinking alcohol in public, no kissing nor holding hands. No unseemly or raucous behaviour. Modesty and decorum at all times.</p>
<p>The degree to which you have to ‘behave’ depends upon the country you are in. The UAE (Dubai etc) is relatively liberal in its attitudes, but in 2009 a British unmarried couple were gaoled for improper and immodest behaviour in a restaurant – they were kissing. Dubai is used to foreigners and you can go around town in normal western clothes. Just remember to be more conservative than back at home – it shows respect for the culture in which you are living – even though other Westerners may not. Bahrain is also moderately ‘relaxed’.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Arab_Woman.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1754" title="Arab_Woman" src="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Arab_Woman.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a>In Saudi Arabia a woman is NOT allowed to socialize in public with a man who is not her husband or a blood relative. She will have to wear an abaya (black cover) over her clothes and have her head and face covered whenever she goes out. Women have to be escorted by a male outside the home (this can be a trusted servant) and cannot have a ‘girls day out’ shopping or meet in a coffee bar for a chat. She’s not allowed to drive or go swimming in the sea. Behaviour is strictly enforced by the religious police whose role it is to keep both citizens and visitors acting in line with their strict moral codes.</p>
<p>Fortunately, there are many expat communities that have homes in compounds. This is to segregate the foreign community and allow expats to live in a manner that suits them away from the eyes of locals.</p>
<p><strong><em>What are the stages most people go through in adjusting to a new culture?</em></strong></p>
<p>Everyone goes through similar stages when acculturating – some of us just get through the process quicker and with less stress. Stages two and three are the ones that need to be managed – commonly known as culture shock. If you find you are getting very homesick seek help.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Fun</strong>: The excitement and adventure of experiencing new people, things,      and opportunities.</li>
<li><strong>Flight</strong>: Disorientation can bring the urge to avoid      everything and everyone that is different. This stage is when you      experience homesickness.</li>
<li><strong>Fight</strong>: The temptation to judge people and things that      are different as bad or foolish.</li>
<li><strong>Fit</strong>: Creative interaction with the new culture that includes a      willingness to understand and embrace.</li>
</ol>
<p><strong><em>What is Culture Shock?</em></strong></p>
<p>Culture shock is inevitable and is a recognised symptom of interacting in an environment that is different – be it work, domestic or both. People used to moving around become more flexible and adaptable, therefore minimising any culture shock symptoms. So how can you recognise culture shock? The typical symptoms include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Feelings of sadness and loneliness</li>
<li>Heightened irritability</li>
<li>Feelings of anger, depression,      vulnerability</li>
<li>Insomnia or sleeping too much</li>
<li>Constant complaints about the climate</li>
<li>Continual offering of excuses for staying      indoors</li>
<li>Utopian ideas concerning one&#8217;s previous      culture</li>
<li>Continuous concern about the purity of      water and food</li>
<li>Fear of touching local people</li>
<li>Trying to hard to adapt by becoming      obsessed with the new culture</li>
<li>Refusal to learn the language</li>
<li>Overwhelming sense of homesickness</li>
<li>Preoccupation about being robbed or cheated</li>
<li>Pressing desire to talk with people who      &#8220;really make sense.&#8221;</li>
<li>Preoccupation with returning home</li>
<li>Questioning your decision to move to this      place</li>
</ul>
<p>Left unchecked, these can lead people to turn to alcohol or drugs to ‘escape’. Beware and be prepared otherwise you may feel alienated and isolated.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong><em>How can you lessen the stress of culture shock?</em></strong></p>
<p>Having information and understanding about culture shock is a first important step to overcoming culture shock. The diagram below depicts the process we will go through. Notice that a positive attitude and making the right choices will help you develop rapport and understanding – then you will be able to straddle both your new and your own culture easily.</p>
<div id="attachment_1607" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Culture-Shock.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1607" title="Culture Shock" src="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Culture-Shock-300x198.jpg" alt="Duane Elmer's Cross-Cultural Connections" width="300" height="198" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Source: Duane Elmer&#39;s Cross-Cultural Connections (Downers Grove: InterVarsity Press, 2002</p></div>
<p>The following actions will help you lessen the stress of culture shock:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Focus on what you can control. <span style="font-weight: normal;">When we are suffering from culture shock, we usually feel out of control. So, don&#8217;t spend energy on things you cannot change.</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t invest major energy in minor problems. <span style="font-weight: normal;">We make &#8220;mountains out of molehills&#8221; even more quickly in cross-cultural situations than we do in our own culture.</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>Tackle major stressors head on. <span style="font-weight: normal;">Don&#8217;t avoid things.</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>Ask for help. <span style="font-weight: normal;">Create a wide support network as quickly as you can in your target culture. This can include expatriates like yourself as well as people of the local culture. Arabs are extremely sociable and are willing entertainers. Although you may not be invited into their home they will readily extend hospitality in a restaurant or hotel.</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>Write it down. <span style="font-weight: normal;">Record your thoughts and frustrations in a journal. This will give you a healthy outlet for expressing your feelings.</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>Compare and Contrast. <span style="font-weight: normal;">Learn about the differences between the cultures by comparing and contrasting so you can articulate them. Then see what lessons you can learn and what conclusions can you draw. Is your own culture more individualistic and initiative-taking; proactive? Do you find the Arab culture more collectivist and fatalistic; reactive?</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>Ask questions. <span style="font-weight: normal;">Learn about how the Arabs think of people form your country – the more you learn about yourself the more you can understand how to understand others.</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><strong>Read up on cross-cultural theories. <span style="font-weight: normal;">Finally, if you are interested, seek out information about how to analyse cultures – there’s a whole science about it – it’s fascinating!</span></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong><em>What will be different at work?</em></strong></p>
<p>There are two characteristics of the Arab World that are particularly frustrating for westerners:</p>
<p>Middle Eastern cultures are very hierarchical which means there will be many levels of authority in an organisation. The ‘top dog’ will probably be an Arab and you may well be frustrated by the way Arab colleagues do not speak there minds or challenge those in authority. Communicating criticism or bad news <span style="text-decoration: underline;">cannot</span> be done directly. To do so can have a devastating effect on your relationship.</p>
<p>Deadlines have no meaning in this culture. You will need to be punctual but others won’t be! Sometimes it’s a sign of superiority but more often signals a way of life. <em>Insha’Allah</em> meaning ‘God willing’ is a phrase you will hear often in reply to making an appointment or getting things done. Many Westerners cynically say that <em>Insha’Allah </em>more appropriately means ‘I’m not willing”.</p>
<p><strong>Expat advice on various countries can be found <a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/expat_logo.gif"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1914" title="http://www.expatarrivals.com/" src="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/expat_logo.gif" alt="" width="163" height="61" /></a><br />
on this expert site: <a href="http://www.expatarrivals.com/">http://www.expatarrivals.com/</a><br />
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<p><strong>My other articles related to culture shock can be found here:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/13/what-is-culture-shock/">What Is Culture Shock?</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/14/the-stages-of-adjusting-to-a-new-culture/">The Stages of Adjusting To A New Culture</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/17/before-you-go-what-to-do-before-you-leave/">Before You Go: What To Do Before You Leave</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/16/overcoming-culture-shock/">Overcoming Culture Shock</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/15/the-classic-5-stage-culture-shock-model/ ">The Classic 5-Stage Culture Shock Model</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/18/rhinesmiths-10-stages-of-culture-shock/">Rhinesmith’s 10 Stages of Culture Shock</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/05/20/collective-culture-shock/">Collective Culture Shoc</a>k</p>
<p><a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/2010/06/13/advice-for-expats-moving-to-the-arab-world/">Advice For  Expats Moving to the Arab World</a></p>
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		<title>When you understand another culture or language, it does not mean that you have to lose your own culture</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 17:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Swallow</dc:creator>
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people to understand the relationship between their own culture and the dominant culture. When you understand another culture or language, it does not mean that you have to lose your own culture.&#8221;
Edward T Hall (Anthropologist)
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people to understand the relationship between their own culture and the dominant culture. When you understand another culture or language, it does not mean that you have to lose your own culture.&#8221;</p>
<p>Edward T Hall (Anthropologist)</p>
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		<title>American Executives in the UK</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 10:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Swallow</dc:creator>
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How difficult can it be?
 
A significant amount of overseas investment is wasted each year because there are invisible core differences between the American and British cultures. These are not always appreciated by corporations and leaders. Consequently the result can be culture clash. The damage to US – UK relationships leads to an absence of trust, [...]]]></description>
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<p><span><span style="font-size: 19px;"><strong>How difficult can it be?<a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/anglo-american-flag-e1276694456586.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2009" title="anglo-american-flag" src="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/anglo-american-flag-e1276694456586.jpg" alt="" width="132" height="87" /></a></strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial; color: navy;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;">A significant amount of overseas investment is wasted each year because there are invisible core differences between the American and British cultures. These are not always appreciated by corporations and leaders. Consequently the result can be culture clash. The damage to US – UK relationships leads to an absence of trust, the erosion of communication and cooperation and failure to achieve the common goal. When management time is applied to the ensuing crisis often only the symptoms are tackled.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: medium;">So, what are the differences, how did they occur and what can we do to get over the shock and pain of culture clash?</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong><span id="more-2008"></span>Time is Money</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 13px;">The first obvious difference concerns pace, speed of response and the choice between urgent and important actions. In the US time is money. When the Founding Fathers and the settlers were staking land claims and working together to create a survivable environment time was life death. The threat was from starvation and exposure. The solution was food warmth and shelter. Critical survival decisions were taken quickly and persistently allowing the best prepared to make it through to spring.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;">Man has largely tamed the extreme effects of climate and scarcity of food but, whilst the enemy is different, (competition, cheap foreign labour, commoditization of mature products etc,) modern fears and behaviours are comparable. Money and wealth are now taken as signs of survival and<span>   </span>success. Rather than “appropriate” actions being taken, the UK view can be that, for the US, any action is preferable to none at all.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoBodyText"><span>For some an hour of scheduled time has a dollar value and correspondingly a missed hour has a dollar cost.</span></p>
<p><span><span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong>Power and How it is Used </strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;">If we take another dimension of difference – hierarchy &#8211; we can see an historical difference in the source of power, how power is manifest and the different ways in which it is perceived today.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;">The newly settled America had sheriffs and Mayors. Having been meritocratically elected or chosen they had real status and power but were also accountable to the mood of the crowd. This can easily be related to the modern US CEO. Whilst in power and being successful, they had authority and permission to give direct orders and put the company’s staff under pressure to act and perform to standards they have set and for the people to make personal sacrifices and take risks to get to those goals.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;">It could be a black and white existence with a large price paid for failure. If we look at the pharmaceutical, investment banking or automotive businesses we see that management styles can be explicit, direct and commanding in nature. Teams are expected to decide rapidly and take action quickly. Efficiency and deadlines are critical. It is <em>“hard work now”</em> for dream of <em>“rewards in the future”.</em></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;">The employee is automatically expected to have values that fit with the corporate ethos- ambition, intensity and focus and the desire for salary, bonus, promotion and ever more responsibility. Status is important and is measured by title, salary, office and trappings.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Arial;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">What is the solution to these contrasting styles? Can a foreign manager in the UK have it their way regarding reporting, deadlines, open communication and measures of quality and customer satisfaction?<span>  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Can an American leader develop a UK team to have a sense of dynamism, accountability and pace that would match the US model?<span>  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span><span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong> So it&#8217;s impossible, right?</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">The symptoms and differences are shocking but not insurmountable. Britain and America would not enjoy such high amounts of mutual investment if it could not be made to work and to work well.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">The shock experienced by US Leadership as they enter the UK is probably more extreme than the underlying differences themselves.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">At this point it may be useful to avoid the stereotype trap and that of being judgmental. It is a waste of time and talent to judge either nation as good or bad, easy or difficult, right or wrong. They are simply different.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Post imperial Britain is a complex and confused place. We have lost our superpower status, our world ranking, and much of our credibility as innovators and pioneers.<span>  </span>We have lost our manufacturing base, our certainty and comfort. No longer are there jobs for life with large British firms paying good pensions at the end of a predictable career at the age of 60 or 65. As a nation we do not have a clear single identity, threat or goal. We have post – Empire confusion and nothing to unite against. </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">There are, though, fundamental differences. The US is imperial, the UK is post &#8211; imperial, the US is still a superpower, the UK is not. The US has a short history the UK a long one and the US has a Presidential system the UK a Monarchy.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span><span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong>How do the British do business?</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"><span> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Regarding feedback British managers will soften criticism, harsh realities, the appraisal or review process to the point where it difficult to directly detect what is being said. Difficult issues are not tackled in a straightforward manner but by writing lines that must be read between or by starting a whispering campaign around the coffee machine.<span>  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">The key difference though is subtle and unconscious. The UK is a relationship-based country. It’s who you know and who’s in the gang, on the inside, in the club or <em>“one of us.”</em></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Pace, action and urgency are not ranked as highly in UK culture companies. It is more about pragmatically getting to the result <em>“somehow.”</em></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span><span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong>Class?</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Finally class, though disguised, is alive and well in the UK. Upper class values tell us that hard work is acceptable only if it does not show. That to look as if achieving something has cost you effort undermines the thing you are trying to achieve. The modern version of this is <strong><span style="font-size: 14px;">COOL</span></strong><span style="font-size: 14px;">.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">We can quickly build up a picture of just how far apart our cultures actually are.<span>  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span><span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong>What tools can help?</strong></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Everyone is free to use the knowledge that relationships are core to UK commercial life. </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">We need good manners, indirect speech and equal status communication to break through, bond and to form UK working relationships that are robust. This is the most powerful tool in translating US objectives into UK delivery.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">By employing small talk, active listening and coaching techniques based on eliciting facts and answers from the person sitting opposite you the foreign manager will get a lot further than by giving commands or talking about shareholder value. If we can mobilize an employee using that employee’s own resources we will have created an empowered, independent and proud UK worker who will contribute more.<strong> </strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">The American manager, when shocked to discover that he has 10 or a hundred of these tricky Brits to manage, can begin by looking out for individuals that might bridge the cultural gap. These people will be identified by their values which will seem closer to home. Test them, recruit them and invest the most precious resource in them – <strong>MANAGEMENT TIME</strong>. They can spread the message in a UK friendly manner. They can also test the temperature and tell if things have gone too far.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">During the US leader’s 6 &#8211; month or 3 – year assignment in the UK he can make an impact with the corporate team. It will not be achieved by shouting at them like a recruiting sergeant or by asking them about company vision and mission statements. It will come about by adjusting his communication styles by 5 or 10% to radically change the relationship with the British team. The start may seem slow and painful but the reward will be worth it as cooperation begins, and differences are leverage to create a positive outcome.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span><span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong>So? </strong></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Adjusting tone, pace and vocabulary should make the leader more effective as his amplified message creates rapport and a strong platform for useful dialogue.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"><span style="color: windowtext;">Without <span style="font-size: 13px;"><strong>engagement, relationship and trust</strong></span>, and outsider should not expect to be successful in effecting change in an established British team. However using the techniques described above it should be possible to begin to break through and to learn something about how we can continue to develop communication and leaderships skills to be ever more effective both with foreign culture teams and our own.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet"> By <strong>Matthew Hill </strong></p>
<p class="MsoListBullet">Matthew Hill is a Leadership Trainer and Intercultural Coach who aims to provoke but never offend (Unless he does.) He can be heard, now, at;<span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong> <a href="http://www.ipadio.com/phlogs/MatthewHill/">http://www.ipadio.com/phlogs/MatthewHill/</a></strong></span></p>
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		<title>Do You Really Understand? Communicating Across Cultures</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 11:42:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborah Swallow</dc:creator>
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Imagine a situation. You  have just received a memo from your 
CEO (you work for a huge global  organisation). In the memo, the newly appointed CEO states his vision  for the company, and the core values he will be implementing as part of  his new strategy. The core values are: Freedom, [...]]]></description>
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<p>Imagine a situation. You  have just received a memo from your <a href="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/international-biz.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2004" title="international biz" src="http://www.deborahswallow.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/international-biz.jpg" alt="" width="126" height="105" /></a><br />
CEO (you work for a huge global  organisation). In the memo, the newly appointed CEO states his vision  for the company, and the core values he will be implementing as part of  his new strategy. The core values are: Freedom, Respect, Integrity. Very  simple values and easily understandable. In fact there is little doubt  what he is looking for&#8230;&#8230;or is there?</p>
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<p>Are you really sure that  you have the same definition of respect, freedom and integrity as your  CEO?</p>
<p><span id="more-1998"></span>Some examples might help, one I have lifted shamelessly from  Mijnd Huijser (Author of “<em>The Cultural Advantage</em>”). An American  newspaper published an article denouncing the levels of freedom and  democracy in Singapore. It cited laws banning smoking in public places,  consumption of chewing gum, the seemingly hereditary post of Prime  Minister, the authoritarian manner of policing, and dictatorial  government style. The conclusion of the article was that Singapore was  not a free country, and the US government should be pressurising  Singapore towards democratic reform. This article prompted  (unsurprisingly) a large response from Singaporeans – one in particular  was highlighted by Mijnd Huijser, which pointed out that if you were to  walk two blocks from the Post building after dark you had a very high  chance of mugging. Americans may well have the freedom to smoke and chew  gum in public, but Singaporeans had the freedom from the fear of  mugging (Singapore has one of the lowest crime rates in the world) and a  very stable government that is able to present a consistent style.</p>
<p><span style="color: #000099;">For the American “freedom” is “freedom  to&#8230;.” – to the Singaporean, “freedom” means “freedom from&#8230;.” Which  interpretation is correct?<br />
</span><br />
What about “respect”? For  Western cultures, respect is largely a two-way process, that allows each  person to value the others, to listen carefully, be polite, but it  allows a certain amount of conflict (i.e. providing I am constructive  and polite, I reserve the right to criticise, disagree, and ignore). In  Asian cultures “respect” is one way – from the bottom to the top. In  other words, your boss gets all your respect, whether you like him or  not, whether you are work or not. Fons Trompenaars (one of the founding  fathers of intercultural theories) uses a dilemma – would you paint your  bosses house if he asked you to? To us Westerners, once you had removed  the expletives, the answer would be “no”. However studies show that,  for example, in China almost 70% of the workforce would definitely paint  their boss’ house!</p>
<p><span style="color: #000099;">Again, we  can ask, which interpretation is correct?<br />
</span><br />
Integrity is  another grey area. I suspect I am not shaking any idealist too much if I  claim that everyone lies to some extent in their day-to-day life.  However we try to remain true to our concept of integrity – honesty in  our negotiations and relationships. Trompenaars uses the dilemma of a  car crash which is entirely your fault, but witnessed by your friend.  How will you expect your friend to describe the event to the police? In  many cultures (covering approx. 80% of the world’s population) they  would expect the friend to tell a huge lie to protect your driving  licence. In Britain we would probably expect our friend to avoid the  truth, by saying for example, they couldn’t really judge the speed, or  they hadn’t noticed me drinking etc. In Switzerland 97% of those asked  said they would tell the truth (that I was over the speed limit and had  been drinking) – in fact there is a joke about the Swiss: Why is the  crime rate so low in Switzerland? Because breaking the law is illegal!</p>
<p><span style="color: #000099;">Is it fair for the Swiss to judge the  remainder (80% of the world’s population) as dishonest liars? Is it fair  for a Venezuelan (70% of whom would tell a lie to protect their friend)  to judge the Swiss as traitors to their friendship? Again, who is  right?<br />
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<p>If we return to our imaginary CEO and his  equally imaginary memo above, we realise that he (or she) has a huge  problem. If his core message cannot be communicated clearly, he is going  to have to explain to his shareholders that he has failed in setting a  new strategy for the company.</p>
<p>Again a hypothetical situation: a  company wants to tap into the success of the Coffee shop franchise and  make its chain of small coffee shops more “upmarket”. The CEO sends a  memo to the local franchisees around the world– bring in some class to  your operations. In New York the coffee shop brings in Styrofoam cups  with lids on, and speeds up the service time. In Germany, they bring in  recyclable cups. In Italy, the franchisees invest in bone china,  expensive furnishings and artwork. In Britain, they put the price up.  Unsurprisingly the CEO is horrified out how his employees have  completely missed his point!</p>
<p>Intercultural communications  skills focus on ensuring that your meaning is the same as the meaning as  perceived by those who hear your message. We have to remove our  assumptions of comprehension and become more explicit. Testing and  retesting comprehension (obviously in a culturally sensitive manner – no  one likes being patronised!). Learning how to transfer a message across  cultures is one of the most important skills an international manager  can have!</p>
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(Sources: <em>The  Cultural Advantage</em>, Mijnd Huijser; <em>The World’s Business  Cultures</em>, Tomalin/Nicks; <em>Riding the Waves of Culture</em>, Fons  Trompenaars)</span></p>
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